Taking for Granted

I think it refers to bad relationship. When one is the dominant while the other is the follower. Sometimes it also about abusive relationship.

Here is a simple way to explain the meaning. When you are in a relationship, you must be imagine it to be super happy. But.. Occasionally you will find someone takes you for granted. They dont respect you for who you are, they use you for their own convinience. Such a person unfortunately do exist. What do you want and what you are doing is not their concern. They want their needs to be fullfilled, as long as they happy… They wont ever be considerate towards you. Because you are suppose to make them happy.

This is my thought. How about yours?

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Posted by on October 2, 2015 in Uncategorized


Hello.. it has been a long time

Hello my lovely reader… It has been a while since i posted something. Got lot of job recently and many occasion that need my full attention.

But… i will start posting… at least once a week. Wish me luck please. ^^

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Posted by on April 13, 2015 in Uncategorized


Ocean Heaven

Have you ever heard of Jet Li????
What does come to your mind when you heard of Jet Li?

Well, if you said Kung Fu then its ok. ^^ he is well-known by his kung fu movies as well as Jackie Chan.

But… this will be the turning point of his impression in your mind.

In this movie, Jet Li take a role of a father who has uncureable disease that left him no choice other than leaving his only son who is autistic. At first, he thought of having the way to die together with his son. He does not want to leave his son behind because he thought that his son will be suffered and became burden for everyone. So he decide to suicide by drowning both of them.

Unfortunately, with his ability which is similiar as a fish, his son save both of them. He see this as a sign that there is a place in this world where his son can survive and live his life.

Maybe… you think that this is like another heart-touching movie. Well, it is. But, the way both of them express their feelings is the important lesson from this movie. I can tell if this is the best movie ever but for me this is the best movie to describe unconditional love.

This movie called “Ocean Heaven”

There is a place for everybody and there is a way for them to survive no matter what.


Read this after you watch the movie. ^^


The beginning …

The Father is having an agony whether he has to let the child joined him in death or create a place where he can lived when he die. the journey is not simple. He has to search for social places that accept people like his child. He search here and there. He also has to teach his child how to do a simple thing, things that he needs to do without depends to other people.

When he teach his child, he do it patiently… the emotion being written in his face let me feel how difficult it is to teach an autism child to do a simple thing. he has to apologize to several people because of the disturbance. but he keeps patiently teach his child how to ride a bus to workplace and come back, how to cook breakfast, how to sweep, and in the end, he pretends to be a turtle so his child will always know that he did not left him behind because everytime he swim besides the turtle, his father is there for him.

This story is really simple, an unconditional love from a father towards a child that won’t do anything in return. His father know his child cant do anything but at least he create a live where he can survive. It simple but this is what struggle means.

There is lot of kind of struggle a person have to faced. It is different from one people to another. Struggle is not a problem… struggle is a challenge from life… it will let us to use our brain and think how to solve the problem. It will let us experience one emotion to another emotion. it will create who we are in the future. People tends to avoid struggle in their life, but i say face the struggle with every courage you have, it will be scary of course, but it also will be in the past once we going through it.

In the end, the most benefit will be with us. And thats why Struggle is the best teacher ever.

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Posted by on November 3, 2013 in EventHappyTime



I have some issue of my sensitivity. It is not like I am always being sensitive but I am always being insensitive. Sometimes, I pull out a jokes… which I thought it will be fun to discuss… but the other party thought that I really mean that. So crazy. Even though I have always with them, how can not they know the difference of being serious and joking.

Well… It’s been a while. But… Sorry that my first post after that long time is a complain. But I just can not figure it out. I have been with them for like a long time yet they can not understand my joke? How ridiculous is that?

Argh … I guess that People has their side of sensitivity… Like myself… I am being so easily upset when my moods is down or when I am busy. But, even though that is the way a human being use to be, they never allowed me to be upset at them.

I am really mad… So mad… How can people do that to other people? Asking them to never upset about their behavior but never do the same in return.

Is it me who is insensitive? or is it them?

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Posted by on June 1, 2013 in Uncategorized


Debat Cagub dan Cawagub Putaran kedua

Setelah sekian lama akhirnya penantian ini berakhir juga. Jujur jika dilihat dari video ini, kelihatan sekali jika Jokowi dan Ahok adalah orang praktisi yang memang sudah melakukan survey lapangan dan menghasilkan suatu bentuk rencana yang dapat langsung dilaksanakan. Di lain pihak, Foke dan Nara lebih memberikan jawaban abstrak yang muluk-muluk.


Debat Putaran Kedua Pemilihan Gubernur Jakarta 2012


Sebelumnya ada artikel yang saya baca dan menggambarkan secara tepat mengenai debat di atas. Namun ketika saya mencoba untuk mencari artikel itu kembali, saya tidak menemukannya. Nanti jika saya temukan, akan saya tampilkan di blog. ^^

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Posted by on September 18, 2012 in Uncategorized


Hm… Try to do this I guess. ^^


If you don’t want to read in English, here are alternatives:
Japanese —- Portuguese —- Chinese —- Spanish —- Russian —- Bahasa —- French —- Vietnamese

Want to show the boys your love for 6Jib? Here is a project that all ELF around the world are able to join, as long as you guy 6jib, so please read carefully
Who?: If you buy Super Junior’s 6th album and you are an ELF, you can join!
What?: Send in a short video clip (no more than 5 seconds) of you or a group of friends, with Super Junior’s 6th album!!
How?: Create a 5 second video clip

Don’t just stand/sit there in your clip!
Here are some ideas:
Jump out from behind a tree ★ Dance with it ★ Do a pose with it ★ Film yourself showing it to someone ★ Hold it in front of a Super Junior…

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Posted by on August 3, 2012 in Uncategorized


This is The BEST!!!! ^^

Korean Chingu

Annyeong Chingudeul….I’m Back….Kali ini akan posting tentang variety show apa ajaaa sih yg pernah d perankan oleh Super Junior…Karena berdasarkan pengalaman pribadi, agak susah nih cari link buat semua variety show nya Suju. Nanti nya apabila ada variety show yang belum aku share d sini link nya, tolong di kasih comment ya, ntar aku cari in….Terima Kasih….


KBS Drama 090905 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 1

KBS Drama 090912 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 2

KBS Drama 090919 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 3

KBS Drama 090926 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 4

KBS Drama 091003 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 5

KBS Drama 091010 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 6

KBS Drama 091024 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 8

KBS Drama 091031 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 9

KBS Drama 091205 Super Junior’s Miracle Show Ep 14


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Posted by on July 30, 2012 in Uncategorized